Keeping our hearts soft…warm…
- Verona L. Jacobs, Poet, Author
- Mar 20, 2019
- 2 min read

Keeping our hearts soft…warm…
Not easy…sometimes…but necessary
For many of us…there is a lot under the tarp
Experiences that we have come through…
Or are going through…that no-one knows…
And some may not even understand
There are many opportunities…
For sections…and eventually…the whole heart…
To become hardened
That’s not a good place for us to be…
Any of those connected to us or…
The inner and outer worlds in which we live
If we allow our hearts to become hardened…
There’s a coldness that comes with it…we can no longer feel
A darkness that gradually dims our light…
Impacting how much we can really see
I say allow…because we have freewill…
We can choose to allow our hurts to consume us…
Or fight for our freedom within…
Because without winning that fight…
There is no freedom
Often our bondage becomes someone else’s bondage…
The choices we make…affect somebody…In some way
We have to gain and sustain freedom…
So that it is a source of light and warmth within…and for those around us
It’s easy for different aspects of our hearts to become hardened…
Based on some of the hurtful things that we go through
Sometimes without realizing it…a small piece at a time…hardens
If not recognized and acknowledged for what it is…
The small pieces will grow and connect…
And will no longer just occupy space in our hearts…
But own it
Don’t let it sneak up on you…
Be honest with yourself about yourself…how you feel…and why
Is it perception…or reality
Work at mastering forgiveness…for real
We receive…so that we can give…
Especially for those of us who ask God for His forgiveness…
And receive it…it’s conditional
Use it to warm a cold heart that has become hardened
Forgiveness is the fire that melts any part of a heart…
That has become hardened…for any reason
It’s a process though…an everyday kind of thing…and it’s not easy
We all need forgiveness for something…
And we all need to grant it…to somebody…
It’s not a pass or an open door for mistreatment
It’s essential for us to position ourselves…
So that we aren’t stuck in a hard and cold place
Keeping our hearts fluid…flowing with love…
A source of warmth…inside/out
It’s what we need…for self preservation…
It's what the world needs…for its preservation
Love…warmth…lots of it…we all need it































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